千万别让这四个坏习惯毁了你的谈话

 4. Are You a Conversation Narcissist?

      Conversation Narcissists love nothing more than to talk about themselves.  The only reason they ask the other person a question like, “How was your weekend?” is so they can circle it back around to them again, “that’s nice…let me tell you about what happened to me…” They rarely inquire seriously about the other person or ask follow up questions.

Suggestion:  This is easy to fix, be genuinely interested in the other person.  When someone tells you something, keep the focus on them, ask follow up questions, recall previous comments the person said, etc.

你是一个以自我为中心的谈话者吗？

      以自我为中心的谈话者只喜欢说自己的事。他们问别人问题的唯一原因，如“你周末过得怎么样？”，只是因此可以转个弯回来说自己的事。“这可真不错呀……让我告诉你我遇到什么事了……”他们很少认真的询问别人，或继续刚才的问题。

建议：这很容易解决，就是要真正的对其他人感兴趣。如果有人告诉你一些事情，持续关注它，问些关于它们的问题，想想刚才这个人所说的话等等。

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